Korean dating culture can feel like a whole new world to many Americans.
While both value love and relationships, the way they express and define them often differs — sometimes in ways that feel totally unexpected.
Here are 4 real-life dating customs in Korea that often surprise people from the U.S.
1. The man usually pays for the date
In Korea, it’s still common for the man to pay, especially during the first few dates.
While younger generations are slowly changing this, many still expect the guy to “lead” in the beginning.
In contrast, American couples are more likely to split the bill — or even alternate who pays.
2. 💬 “Do you want to date me?”
In the U.S., relationships often develop naturally without a specific moment of agreement.
But in Korea, a clear confession is expected.
Without the question “Will you go out with me?”, the relationship isn’t official —
no matter how many dates you’ve been on.
3. Constant messaging is normal
Korean couples often message each other throughout the day.
It’s not unusual to ask, “Did you eat?”, “Where are you now?”, or “What are you doing?”
While Americans may see this as clingy, in Korea, it’s considered caring and thoughtful.
4. 💍 Couple rings & matching items
Many Korean couples wear matching rings, use the same phone wallpapers, or even dress in similar outfits.
It’s a visual way of saying, “We’re together.”
This kind of visible affection isn’t very common in the U.S., where couples tend to be more low-key.
Love is universal — but how we show it? That’s where things get interesting.
Which one surprised you the most?
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